I've been thinking about what Christmas means to me personally. I'm not very religious, so the connection to the birth of Christ isn't all that significant to me. (Especially because if we want to be historically accurate, it seems likely that Jesus was actually born in the spring, or so History Television tells me.) Yet I still look forward to this time of year, and I really enjoy it when it comes.I know the "right" thing to say is that I abhor the commercialism that surrounds the holiday, and I do to a certain extent, but not completely. (What I truly abhor is being around Polo Park in December. I finished my Christmas shopping at the beginning of the month and after that you couldn't pay me to go anywhere near there. Holy moly.)
Anyway, while presents are not the most important thing about Christmas to me, I still think they have a place. In shopping for Christmas presents, I end up spending a lot of time thinking about the people I'm buying for -- what their interests are and what they'd enjoy finding when they take off the wrapping paper -- and it invariably brings to mind good memories. And although I think of these people throughout the year, I usually don't concentrate on them and their interests in the same way at any other time. And then when they open the presents, I like to see if I'm right about them and what they'd like, and if I am, it's a bit of a rush.
And yes, I also like to get presents too. It's fun! And I appreciate the fact that someone else spent some time thinking about me in the same way. And that has nothing to do with the size or price of the gift.
So while I think the commercialism is out of control (these are the glory days for the Big Boxes and of all the things Christmas is not about, that's number one), I like the exchange of presents. (Brief digression: I think this "gift card" trend is for the birds -- it's a cop-out to not actually pick out a gift, and they seem like a bit of a cash grab on the part of the retailers when (a) they have expiration dates and (b) they won't refund unused portions, so if you buy a $17 gift with a $20 gift card, the store just keeps the extra $3 unless you find something else that costs exactly $3 or else spend more money. Bah humbug.)
To me, the most important thing about Christmas (and it's sappy, so live with it) is the time with friends and family. Some are people I see often, and some are not. But it's pretty special to me to have a chance to come in out of the cold, sit down, have a lot of perogies and visit with them. It was especially nice this year to see my mom all excited about having all three of her kids around for Christmas, which hasn't happened all that much in the past few years. And this year we aren't trying to cram in visits with everyone in the week that we're here before we head back to Thunder Bay, so it was a lot more relaxed.
Other things I like about Christmas:
- people generally being in a better mood than at other times of the year (particularly the dog days of March when winter seems like it's gone on forever and isn't showing any signs of letting up);
- seeing Christmas trees around town as a reminder that it's coming up;
- having a few days off between Christmas and New Year's (not so much this year);
- Twelve Meatless Dishes;
- making fun of kutya -- somehow I think my grandparents would understand;
- watching the World Junior Hockey Championships and discussing Canada's performance with strangers (it's a national bonding experience); and
- watching Christmas Vacation at least once. Love that Randy Quaid! I laugh just thinking about the part where he's standing in the street wearing a rather skimpy bathrobe and fur hat complete with ear flaps sticking out, drinking a beer and emptying his RV toilet into the sewer. And then when the snooty neighbours glare at him, he cheerfully explains himself by saluting them with the beer and hollering, "The shitter was full!"
And that's what Christmas is really about to me at this point. Someday, watching my own kids at Christmas I might think differently, but I'm not sure I'll change that much.













